Great|Minds

A Square Peg In A Round Hole.

When you find yourself in a world with all sorts of images and several kinds of influences constantly trying to forge something out of you, being yourself becomes a challenge. There are many facts and influences trying to pattern people into something other than themselves. No one lives another man’s life. People are always shown or told what an ideal person should be and look like. This comes in many different forms. It could be through the media: Television, Magazines, and Internet. We are shown what the “sexiest woman” or the “sexiest man” alive looks like yet no one knows the parameters which were employed in order to ascribe such a title. Well, that may not really be a problem in itself. What is even more vital is that, people behold these images (especially young people) and before long, they start chasing shadows and trying so hard to be someone else or fit into some unknown parameters so as to measure up or get some vane satisfaction from a sense of fake worth. This could also result to a faulty thinking which could leave someone feeling that they may be lesser, unfortunate or do not possess special qualities like those who may appear great and appealing to them. This is so not true! We are all valuable, unique and gifted in many different ways. It’s true we may have different backgrounds, situations, Destinies etc but then anyone can be successful and be the best that they can be if they take the right path.

In another light, being inspired, motivated or looking up to a role model doesn’t translate to wanting to be someone else order than you. It’s ok to aspire to be like another great person and not them. Wanting to be like someone is different from wanting or wishing you were that person. That could result to someone undermining their worth and value and thinking that, another is more unique, valued or gifted. The fact that one person isn’t gifted in the same way like another doesn’t make them any lesser of a human. We are all gifted uniquely.

Some hallow in low self-esteem, self-pity and sometimes uphold crazy fancies of being someone else order than them for whatever reasons. And it’s just a pity because that is a really dysfunctional place to be in and when you find yourself in such a place, it becomes difficult for you to make any reasonable progress with your life. It’s indeed, a place where no one should stay in.

Every human being has great valued. Your life is as valuable as mine so, don’t get things twisted. The accomplishments, fame, success etc someone as attained doesn’t make them anymore valuable than another. It doesn’t matter is you are the “Most Successful man alive” and if you are we applaud you for that but that doesn’t make you an upgraded human being value wise.

 

One of the best things that can happen to you is for you to embrace yourself and your uniqueness as a person. What could be more fulfilling than living your own life? The life path of the “The richest Man Alive” may not be as smooth and easy as you think. Common, you are admiring the house just from the outside; you haven’t yet gone inside to find out what that house is truly like. Being who you were made to be will be the best you can ever be.